Spend Time Bonding and Reap the Rewards
Helping your new born grow and develop is all about helping them to have the best start in life. You can buy them the best clothes, toys and all other accessories that are designed to enhance their lives but there is nothing more precious than the special bond between parents and their child.
Life is hectic. It hurtles past us at an alarming rate and we get wrapped up in work and other personal aspects of life that mean many of us miss out on those special moments with our children. From the moment they enter they world, all they need is you and nothing else. They want a parent that they can depend on and a parent who will be there for them because that bond is from day one, is their comfort blanket and their safe place.
Forming that bond is a beautiful and natural thing. Making eye contact, make skin contact and hold them while giving them all the love they could ever need. When you make these special bonds, it will enable you to tune yourself into the needs of your child and that is a huge positive that comes with bonding in this way.
It is vital that you don’t miss those special moments to bond just because you needed to do something, that in reality, is not urgent. Take the time to play with them and take the time to spend quiet moments with just the two of you. Bonding with your child is a natural process and one that happens when you put in the effort and the time.
When you create that special bond, it will remain in place indefinitely and it cannot be broken. As they grow up and reach each milestone, they will still need that bond but in a different way. They need you more than you realise and bonding is all about giving them that sense of security and positive connection because that is the best way to set them on their way in life.